Yesterday was just a whirl wind. Matt watched Alex while I cleaned up our home for the big party. I was actually scrubbing the floors on my hands and knees! We gave Alex his gift – a spiffy new wagon – He hasn’t had a real ride in it yet – it was a cold and windy day here, perhaps today.
The party started at 4, and immediate family, grandmas, and a few close neighbours were invited. We wished we could include all of our friends, but it would have been too large of a party – perhaps next year. Sorry girls!
We did the Tol ceremony for Alex. First we had him all dressed up in his hanbok – not the full outfit, but just the essentials. Some pieces are just way too large still. The hanbok is the traditional Korean outfit. At the Tol ceremony a number of items are laid out on a table and then the child is to choose items. The first two items are to predict the child’s future. On Alex’s Tol table we had a knife (good cook), a ruler (good with hands), a rice cake (rich), an arrow (a warrior), a book (a scholar), a spool of thread (a long life). The father is to guide the child over the table. At first we thought he was going for the arrow (with help from Matt!), but instead he chose the rice cake, and then the spool of thread.
After a great bbq of homemade burgers, hot dogs, sausages, and lots of salads we did the cake. Now, I wanted to make Alex his first cake – so I tried on Friday. This is what happened:
So… we had to go buy one. The one we bought was chocolate and Alex LOVED it! I’m sure you can tell by the pictures below.
He received a number of lovely gifts from everyone which I’m sure he will have a blast with! Thank you friends and family!
Putting him to bed last night was a very special thing. While he was taking his bottle we had a little chat. I talked to him about his birthmother and how brave she was. I also talked about his foster mom and how both of them were thinking about him and that the loved him very much. Most of I told him about how much we love him and how happy we are that he is in our lives. Love you little man!